sadly I live on a apartment and don't own many tools to start working on the bike
Well that begs the first question - should I really be undertaking a project like this? Do I have the space/time/money/expirence to really get the outcome I want? or have I been unrealistic in my expectations?
Great!!! you are ahead of about 60% of the newbies that come here.
the owner PO said he bought the bike, rode it home, strip it down and forgot about it,
Never a good sign. Likely he was not saavy either as an expirenced mechanic would not necessarily have taken it all apart for no reason whatsoever.
I also have a few boxes with bike parts, electrical harness cables etc are in there,
Step 1: Get a parts manual and a service manual and label and inventory everything. this takes time but you may not know what you are missing until you try to figure out what you aren't. Chances are some stuff is lost to the ether.
you don't know that. you are working off an assumption based on a PO of dubious experience.
I just rather have my mechanic to give me a diagnostic of the conditions of the engine
Again I can't seem to wrap my head around what your mechanic is going to do without a running bike. not much he can diagnose. But there is plenty you can do to learn about this, plus plenty of excuses for you to buy tools and develop a comfort level for working on the bike. I think this is not only a waste of money but it cheats you out of why you actually bought the thing in the first place.
and I want to talk about modern parts because that's how the bike is going to look and I want to get an idea of how much I need to budged for and if is even woth it
Here is where I point out that this notion of modern parts is more complicated and expensive than just getting the thing running, even given the fact your bike came home more in boxes than as a bike. nobody here is going to talk to you about modern parts in any serious way because nobody here has any faith that this project it just a lot of money ill spent and letting your dreams get the better of you. Here is the thing junior in order to fit a modern front end you need to be aware of things like rake, trail, suspension sag, spring rates, dampen rates, how bearings work, how they are installed, whether the ones you currently have are good, steering stops, etc...I mean it's no small amount of work on both paper and with tools. You aren't going to pay someone to do it and get any kind of bargain and you aren't going to be able to do it yourself based on what you have already said about tool ownership and reluctance to work on bike.
again I am going to tell you - you won't know if it is worth it until your bike runs and you are riding it. Before then you are just jerking off. Go buy some tools, get a service manual, and get your bike to run.