Frozen peas, green beans ( in the bag) have been good to me.
other that that... nerding out on the computer and watching crappy tv have been good... caught the documentary.. american hardcore today. good stuff.
By the time you're 40, you're done getting laid anyway. Although my 8 yr old daughter just walked in on my wife & I Sun afternoon (she was supposed to be in the basement rec-room watching a movie). I'm sure it was probably very traumatic (for all 3 of us), since it wasn't exactly a missionary situation. Hopefully it will work out in my favour, as pre-emptive birth control - the girl was disgusted.